The only reason insults hurt you is because you believe the same insults about yourself. Learn to love yourself and learn who you are inside. Once this is accomplished you will find all your good traits far outway any bad trait. Therefore no one can hurt you worse than you can hurt yourself! This is the philosophy I swear by and it has served me well. Took me over 35 years to learn it though.

When someone made a nasty comment about my size I just said as politely as I could at least I can change how I look but don't think it will be so easy for you to change your nasty mind and mouth then I just walked away

Look, I'm not a mean person, I love people! But I will not tolerate ignorance and degrading of myself or anyone else. People come in all sizes, y'all know this! Even when I was thin, it seemed like it wasn't thin enough for certain people. I just don't care to here blatant, caddy remarks anymore, cause I will and do, react!

I act like it doesn't bother me or I ignore them. At the same time it is festering inside and eating away at me and I keep my composure as long as I can but the moment I am alone I break down.

My condition? what condition? If they are hostile it has nothing to do with me... SOME people just wake up mean. and that could be, because they woke up...