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Have You Ever Been A šŸ† Trophy Girlfriend Or Wife Then Demoted To An Embarrassment Because You Gained Weight?

A MyObesityTeam Member asked a question šŸ’­
Tallahassee, FL

Meaning that you and your companion started out doing a lot of things together! They would take you out to eat and different places but when you began to gain weight; it started to slow down until it stopped because they were too embarrassed to be seen with you!

December 1, 2023
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A MyObesityTeam Member

I agree with Taffy!

December 1, 2023
A MyObesityTeam Member

I went through that and more til I went into depression!! I felt like the Ugly Duckling 🐣!! I didn’t want to go on trips with my besties anymore! I only went to my mom’s, the store and church!! I felt as if nobody else wanted me! I was at my lowest with low self esteem until one day I went with my besties and took a picture! I say ā€œHey, I’m beautifulā€ with a wow expression on my face. My friend said that’s what we’ve been trying to tell you!! After that….the cat was out of the bag! It was done!! Those low and depression days were gone!! I shook those ashes off of me!! After that guess what??? I got sick of him because I prayed the prayer that nobody really wants to pray! I wanted all of my feelings to leave! I wanted to be RELEASED of all of the toxic and poison that was overtaking my mind!

I left and didn’t look back!! The moral of my story is to NEVER depend on a man to show you your worth or value! You should know that yourself without a doubt!!! The bad thing that sprung from my hurt was that it built up a STRONG WALL!! If I met a guy!! It was just something to do! All of my past pain stopped me from feeling cared about. I no longer trusted them. To be honest I never gave them a chance! Well…..that’s the end of. Part 1!

TO BE CONTINUED

December 1, 2023
A MyObesityTeam Member

You’re blessed to have not gone through that but CONGRATULATIONS on turning it around and losing 10 lbs! Awesome job and I know feeling!! Keep pushing!! You got this!! šŸ‘šŸ½

December 1, 2023
A MyObesityTeam Member

To God be the glory for deliverance!! I’m happy for you

December 2, 2023
A MyObesityTeam Member

Thanks so much guys! No every guy isn’t like that and I’m truly thankful! I went through some things to learn! I’m thankful that I learned because some don’t! They accept the abuse and take it! No no! I wasn’t born to live a life of humiliation!

As I moved on with my life; I had to learn to forgive IN SPITE OF the way I’m treated! See….all women doesn’t go through being mistreated! I never was but God knew that I was strong enough to handle it! Of course I didn’t at first! I had to learn that payback doesn’t resolve the issue! It’s wrong to say don’t worry! I’m going to get you back! That makes you just as wrong as the one doing it to you!

After praying and asking God to forgive me for all of my sins and to give me the strength to forgive…..I was able to go further in life! God cuts off our blessings for being upset with other’s! Holding hate only creates a space in Hell go for! That’s where the mean, nasty, and enemies go! Clean hearts are not permitted in Hell and Nasty ones aren’t welcome in Heaven!! It’s our choice!!!!

Have a blessed night Supreme Team!!! You girls are the BEST!!!!
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December 1, 2023

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