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Does anyone else feel like the person treating them would be a better fit IF they had gone through what you have?

A MyObesityTeam Member asked a question 💭
High Point, NC

My PA is wonderful but she wants me to eat less than 1500 calories a day. There are days I do it because of work but then when I get hungry... being obese and diabetic can kick rocks.

December 31, 2025
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A MyObesityTeam Member

often, dietians who are skinny with no knowledge other than thier books and study...really. how do they know the life time struggle of wanting to enjoy food and the taste and grrrrrr, you know

January 27
A MyObesityTeam Member

So true! Food is an addiction. That's why this peer intervention is GREAT! Thin people can empathize, but they never really know the struggle.

February 8
MyObesityTeam

Do you feel your healthcare provider would be a better fit if they had personal experience with obesity?

It's completely understandable to feel this way. Many people find it frustrating when their provider's recommendations don't match their lived reality. A MyObesityTeam member echoed this sentiment, saying "I have never Show Full Answer

Do you feel your healthcare provider would be a better fit if they had personal experience with obesity?

It's completely understandable to feel this way. Many people find it frustrating when their provider's recommendations don't match their lived reality. A MyObesityTeam member echoed this sentiment, saying "I have never had that much faith in dietitians because by this age, I know what to eat."

The challenge you're facing with the 1500-calorie limit is real. Hunger isn't just willpower—it's influenced by hormones, blood sugar levels, and your body's unique needs, especially when managing diabetes alongside obesity.

What might help:

- Talk openly with your PA about the hunger you're experiencing. A good provider will adjust the plan based on what's actually working for you, not just what looks good on paper
- Ask if she can refer you to a registered dietitian who specializes in obesity treatment. They can create meal plans that keep you satisfied while supporting your goals
- Consider whether your care team might benefit from including someone who uses motivational interviewing—a supportive approach that focuses on your challenges rather than just telling you what to do

The right provider focuses on support, not blame, and recognizes that obesity is complex. If you consistently feel unheard or judged, it may be worth exploring other options.

December 31, 2025

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